Ni ngombwa kugira urusengero usengeramo?

Abantu benshi, bakunda kwibaza iki kibazo, rimwe na rimwe bagashaka igisubizo, cyangwa ubundi bakabyibaza gusa ariko ntibagire icyo babikozeho bikarangirira aho.Mu buryo rusange, yego, ni ngombwa kugira urusengero cyangwa itorero umuntu asengeramo, ariko hari n’ubwisanzure mu kwemera butuma bidahinduka itegeko ridakuka.

Dore impamvu rusange zerekana akamaro ko kugira urusengero usengeramo:

Kuba mu muryango w’abizera

Iyo ufite aho usengera, uba uri mu muryango w’abantu basangiye ukwemera, mufashanya mu by’umwuka no mu buzima busanzwe.
Hari abantu bagusengera, bakagufasha no mu bihe bikomeye.

Kwiga no gukura mu buryo bw’umwuka

Mu rusengero ni ho habera inyigisho, amasengesho rusange, indirimbo, n’andi masomo atuma umuntu akura mu kwemera kwe.

Abaheburayo 10:24-25

“Kandi tujye dutekereza uko twahugurana kugira ngo turusheho gukundana no gukora imirimo myiza, twe kureka guteranira hamwe nk’uko abandi bamaze kugira akamenyero, ahubwo tujye duhugurana cyane cyane uko mwumva yuko uwo munsi wegereje.”

Kurushaho kuba intangarugero

Iyo usengera ahantu hamwe, haba hari n’abagukurikirana, bakakurinda gutatira inzira. Bituma umuntu agira umutima wo kwitonda no kuba mu murongo w’Imana.

Ubufasha no gufashanya

• Iyo ukeneye ubufasha bw’amasengesho, inama z’ubuzima, cyangwa iby’amagorwa, itorero riba rifite uko rigufasha.
• Abenshi baravuga bati: “Nubwo nari mfite ibibazo bikomeye, abantu bo mu rusengero baransengeye, baramfasha, sinacitse intege.”

Ariko se, byanze bikunze urusengero ni ngombwa?

Oya, si itegeko ngo umuntu adashobora gusenga adafite urusengero runaka. Imana ntigira aho iba gusa; irahari hose.

Yesu ubwe yavuze ati: “Aho babiri cyangwa batatu bateraniye mu izina ryanjye, mba ndi hagati yabo.” (Matayo 18:20)

Bivuze ko ushobora gusenga uri mu rugo, uri wenyine cyangwa hamwe n’abandi.

Ariko kandi, kutagira aho usengera bishobora gutuma usubira inyuma mu kwemera, ntube ukibonana n’abandi, ukabura inyigisho n’ubufasha.

Yego, ni byiza kandi ni ingenzi kugira urusengero usengeramo:

• Bituma ukura mu buryo bw’umwuka
• Ufasha abandi kandi nawe ugafashwa
• Ujya mu iteraniro ry’abizera, ukarushaho kugendera mu nzira y’Imana

Ariko urusengero nyarwo ni umutima wawe. N’aho waba uri hose, ushobora gusenga, ukaganira n’Imana, ukayumvira.

Ishimwe.