Iki ni ikibazo abantu benshi bakunda kwibaza. Ni ikibazo gishimishije kandi kigaragaza uko abantu batekereza ku ubwiza, ariko ikiruta byose ni uko twibuka ko ubwiza ari ibintu birebwa mu buryo butandukanye bitewe n’umuco, aho umuntu akuriye, amarangamutima ye, ndetse n’uko yirebera cyangwa yarezwe.
Ariko tugiye kugerageza kuguha ibisubizo mu buryo rusange (nk’uko abantu benshi babibona), tunabishyiremo umwanya wo kuzirikana ku bwiza bw’imbere, kuko nacyo ari ingenzi.
1. Isura isukuye, isa neza, ituje
- Abantu benshi babona umukobwa mwiza nk’ufite isura ifite isuku, ihumura neza, n’uruhu rutari rwuzuyemo ibibazo byinshi by’uruhu (nk’ibishishi cyangwa amavuta menshi).
- Umukobwa ugaragara afite ubuzima buzira umuze, ari bwo asura igaragara neza.
2. Inseko nziza kandi yuje urugwiro
- Inseko nziza ifungura umutima, igaragaza icyizere no gutuma abandi bumva banezerewe.
- Hari abakobwa batavugwa cyane ku bindi, ariko inseko yabo ituma bagaragara neza cyane.
3. Amaso agaragaza ituze n’ubwenge
- Amaso manini cyangwa akayunguruye neza, areba umuntu mu maso, yuzuza isura y’umuntu.
- Abantu benshi bavuga ko “amaso atagira icyo avuga” atuma umuntu abura igice cy’ubwiza bw’imico.
4. Imisatsi yitaweho
- N’ubwo ubwoko bw’imisatsi bushobora gutandukana, umukobwa ufite imisatsi isukuye kandi itunganijwe akenshi agaragara neza.
- Nta byangombwa byinshi, ahubwo ni uburyo imisatsi yitaweho bihagije.
5. Ijwi n’imivugire ituje
- Umukobwa uvuga mu buryo butuje, wubaha abandi kandi ushyira mu gaciro, yigarurira imitima myinshi. Bimwongerera ubwiza.
Ariko se… ubwiza bw’ukuri buherereye hehe?
Ubwiza bw’ukuri buvuye imbere, kandi ni bwo buzira gusaza. Umukobwa afite:
- Ubwenge n’ubushishozi
- Ubupfura n’ikinyabupfura
- Ukwicisha bugufi
- Ubwuzu, urukundo, no kubaha abandi
…uwo ni we abantu baba bashaka kumva bari hafi. Nubwo yaba afite isura itajyanye n’”ibipimo byiza” bya bamwe, imico n’uburyo yitwara bishobora kumuhindura mwiza ku bantu bose
Umukobwa mwiza si uwihindurishije uko abandi bashaka, ahubwo ni uwiyakira, agakunda uko ameze, akagira umutima mwiza, n’imyitwarire iganisha ku kwiyubaha no kubaha abandi.
Utekereza ko ubwiza nyabwo buherereye hehe? Mu maso cyangwa mu mutima? Cyangwa byose bifatanye?
Niba wifuza, dushobora no kuganira ku buryo umukobwa yakwiyitaho kugira ngo yigaragaze neza kandi yumve ko afite agaciro.
Mukazayire Youyou
